I'm always annoyed to hear about more protests on the news. Then begins the slew of angry, argumentative conversations and pictures on Facebook. Jon and I saw the beginnings of the Wall St. protest and really half of the people there had no idea what was going on, that was obvious.
I'm not the most informed person when it comes to politics, I'll admit that. What becomes frustrating is people's entitlement and need to complain without action. Protests are a form of action but if you're upset about how banks handle things, take your money out, keep your money in a jar buried in your backyard. When did people start continually supporting mediocrity or anything less? Words mean nothing, action means everything. By the way, where do all those protesters get their poster boards, markers, and blue tarps for sleeping in a park to protest with?
There's me on my soapbox. To my point....
After my initial reactions of frustration I start to sadly realize people are dying to belong to a cause. On the surface we can say we're protesting greed, which might be true, but in reality we want to belong to something that makes a difference. We don't like how things are going and we want to help make a change for the better so we jump on the first bandwagon idea.
I know God created us to have a longing for him and when we refuse to be in a relationship with him we search to belong to something. It starts with easy things like groups at school or work, then it moves into larger scale gatherings such as the political protests, but no real action or change happens because I believe people are focused on the wrong things. They are chasing after futile outcomes. Now I know it can be argued the civil rights movement has had a lasting effect and to a point I agree. Things are still very imperfect among races but what if instead of spending time on protests we spent time seeking after God? Seeking to love each other as God loves us? Would there be any need for protests against how people are treated? If instead of spending hours on a street corner protesting greed we all took a look at how we are spending the resources God has entrusted us with and start using those to serve each other.
The world is imperfect and even if we spent our time seeking after God there would still be problems. That's just life as it is. I really do believe more change, more transformation can take place if we spent our time radically living a life Jesus has called us to live and less time protesting the evil things in this world.
*Side note: I'm not looking to argue with people on specific topics of protests. I am willing to read respectful comments and/or disagreements on the idea of wanting to belong to something.
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
New York City, continued
Tuesday we were up bright and early, just because we're early risers. Our first stop on the list was Central park so we decided to head in that direction and look for a place to eat breakfast. We couldn't find one right away so we walked through Central Park for a bit, saw Bow Bridge, which is apparently the most romantic bridge around, then headed back in to the city for breakfast. After walking around the area for a good 20 minutes without much luck we just decided to head to our next stop which was Battery Park. We'd look for food over there.
As soon as we emerged from the subway we saw a cafe on the corner called George's. We ate breakfast there which was just your typical egg, toast, hashbrown, and bacon kind of place. It was good enough since we were starving by this point. We walked over to Battery Park and found a good viewing spot for the Statue of Liberty. I was really bummed we couldn't go see it (we didn't have the time and I think it's closed for a while) but at least I saw it in the distance. It's quite large.
After Battery Park we went to Wall St. When we got there we were a little confused because there were so many streets fenced off and it wasn't obvious where any of the famous landmarks were. We walked around for a bit and finally found the New York Stock Exchange building which was pretty. We also found the Trump Building (we have some funny pictures to show once we do a little photoshop) and a building with a George Washington Statue outside. There were a lot of people walking around in their business suits with places to go, stocks to buy and sell. Here the buildings were really close together it was crazy. We also saw the start of the Wall St. Protest. The funny thing was all those sleeping in the park nearby had bright blue tarps, all looked brand new and Jon and I joked they probably picked them up at Wal-Mart or some other large corporate store.
We had planned to eat lunch at a hot dog stand on the sidewalk but it was a little early for lunch and we were so tired of walking we wanted to find a place to sit down. We decided we'd wait for lunch and head over to the 9/11 memorial early. You have to reserve your tickets ahead of time or if you're lucky buy some just prior to entering. We had a 45 minute wait before we could get in the memorial so we found a place to sit and waited it out.
The 9/11 memorial was perhaps my favorite place we visited. After waiting in line we were directed through security (which was exactly like airport security but without complaining...it was kind of weird.) There was a lot of construction still going on where the towers were so after walking through a line of fences we walked into the open area of the memorial. It was very simple. We walked first over to the South Pool. These pools were so enormous and breathtaking. The noise of the water falling seemed to drown out most other noises. There were flowers and flags placed at specific names. There were a few tears as I thought of all the people who rushed in to the danger, all the family members who left behind small children and spouses, and ultimately the names followed by, "and her unborn child." A couple asked Jon to take their picture in front of one of the pools and we talked later about how it was a little weird to be smiling in a picture in a place where such death and destruction had taken place. There was a small museum in a gift shop as you exited the memorial. The real museum has not yet been finished.
From the memorial we headed to China Town and Little Italy for lunch before the leaving the Big Apple. As soon as we got off the subway there was Chinese writing on every single building. It really felt like we were in a different country. Then we simply turned left on to one street and all of a sudden it was Little Italy. We looked up a restaurant on Urban Spoon and had a delicious plate of Chicken Parm. We then hit up a quaint Italian Bakery on our way out and had some DELICIOUS dessert. Jon got a slice of Tiramisu and I got a chocolate mousse dessert. Yum! I could have stayed there and had a few more desserts.
We headed back to Penn Station, or so we thought. We caught the wrong subway and went in the opposite direction but we had plenty of time to find the right one and head back. We got to Penn Station in time to catch an early train so we paid a little extra and headed back to Albany early.
We got back to the house at about 8:30. Ate some pizza and went to bed. We left for home the next morning.
Jon and I enjoyed our time in New York. It was kind of like a novelty seeing all the famous places. There are so many in one spot. Everything is so expensive though and there are so many people I really couldn't imagine living there of my own free will. We also talked about not really wanting to go back. For what? I told Jon the only reason I'd like to go back is to actually visit the Statue of Liberty, see the wall of names at Ellis Island because I have family members listed there, and perhaps go to a Broadway show. I'm glad we got to visit.
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| A view from Central Park |
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| Statue of Liberty from Battery Park |
After Battery Park we went to Wall St. When we got there we were a little confused because there were so many streets fenced off and it wasn't obvious where any of the famous landmarks were. We walked around for a bit and finally found the New York Stock Exchange building which was pretty. We also found the Trump Building (we have some funny pictures to show once we do a little photoshop) and a building with a George Washington Statue outside. There were a lot of people walking around in their business suits with places to go, stocks to buy and sell. Here the buildings were really close together it was crazy. We also saw the start of the Wall St. Protest. The funny thing was all those sleeping in the park nearby had bright blue tarps, all looked brand new and Jon and I joked they probably picked them up at Wal-Mart or some other large corporate store.
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| New York Stock Exchange |
The 9/11 memorial was perhaps my favorite place we visited. After waiting in line we were directed through security (which was exactly like airport security but without complaining...it was kind of weird.) There was a lot of construction still going on where the towers were so after walking through a line of fences we walked into the open area of the memorial. It was very simple. We walked first over to the South Pool. These pools were so enormous and breathtaking. The noise of the water falling seemed to drown out most other noises. There were flowers and flags placed at specific names. There were a few tears as I thought of all the people who rushed in to the danger, all the family members who left behind small children and spouses, and ultimately the names followed by, "and her unborn child." A couple asked Jon to take their picture in front of one of the pools and we talked later about how it was a little weird to be smiling in a picture in a place where such death and destruction had taken place. There was a small museum in a gift shop as you exited the memorial. The real museum has not yet been finished.
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| The South Pool |
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| The North Pool |
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| Freedom Tower |
From the memorial we headed to China Town and Little Italy for lunch before the leaving the Big Apple. As soon as we got off the subway there was Chinese writing on every single building. It really felt like we were in a different country. Then we simply turned left on to one street and all of a sudden it was Little Italy. We looked up a restaurant on Urban Spoon and had a delicious plate of Chicken Parm. We then hit up a quaint Italian Bakery on our way out and had some DELICIOUS dessert. Jon got a slice of Tiramisu and I got a chocolate mousse dessert. Yum! I could have stayed there and had a few more desserts.
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| Little Italy |
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| China Town |
We got back to the house at about 8:30. Ate some pizza and went to bed. We left for home the next morning.
Jon and I enjoyed our time in New York. It was kind of like a novelty seeing all the famous places. There are so many in one spot. Everything is so expensive though and there are so many people I really couldn't imagine living there of my own free will. We also talked about not really wanting to go back. For what? I told Jon the only reason I'd like to go back is to actually visit the Statue of Liberty, see the wall of names at Ellis Island because I have family members listed there, and perhaps go to a Broadway show. I'm glad we got to visit.
Saturday, October 8, 2011
New York City
Monday morning Jon and I headed to back to Albany to catch a train to the city. We had a rental car and were going to return it at the airport and then catch a cab to the train station.....until we realized it would cost us $40 to do that. So Jon's dad kindly let us take his truck to park at the train station so we could then drive ourselves back to their house after our trip to the City. We left Hadley at the house, much to her chagrin. She kept saying, "I wanna go!" like she was being left out. It was kind of sad.
I drove the truck and Jon drove the rental car in front of me with the GPS system. Well we were in Albany, on toll roads which are totally foreign to me, when the GPS decided to take forever to update. As soon as it did Jon saw we needed to be exiting right that second. So in the little rental car he zipped over to the exit and I kept driving on since the truck can't really just zip over two lanes to an exit. Thus I became lost in Albany with about an hour and half to get to the train. After several frustrating attempts to get myself to the airport I was starting to give up and to stop and ask for directions. I didn't have any cash on my for toll roads and so I was nervous about getting on the highway only to find out I had to pay. Finally I saw a sign for the highway and decided I'd just get on and see where it took me. Luckily, it took me to the airport without having to pay any tolls. I picked up Jon and we made it to the train station with time to spare.
It was our first time on a commuter train and we had no idea what we were doing. They wait until 10 minutes before the train departs to announce which gate to go to. We were nervous we would miss it but we made it. The seats had so much space it made airplanes look like miniature toys. The train followed the Hudson river south to New York city and we got to see a lot of the country. We even saw a Bald Eagle with a fish in its talons about 20 yards from the train, it was pretty cool. Two and a half hours later we arrived in Penn Station.
From Penn Station we started our adventure. We stopped at Eataly for lunch because we were STARVING. We had no idea what the place was like so when we sat down at the first table we could find it happened to be a menu of only seafood and vegetarian plates. Ummm what? We then figured out this place was a farmer's market with several little restaurants in it. We got up from the table and headed over to the Pizza and Panini's restaurant which had a 30 minute wait. Go figure. We were going to walk around while we waited and discovered a fancy restaurant that had immediate seating so we just went with that. Probably not the best decision either as we couldn't really decipher the menu and I ended up ordering raw beef. It didn't taste bad, it was sliced thin like prosciutto, but not filling at all and not what I wanted. Jon traded with me and we ended up mostly sharing his dish which was some sort of Gnocchi. It was good but not great.
From Eataly we went to the Subway and purchased our Metro Card and headed over to 5th Ave to FAO Schwarz. The subway took some getting used to. We quickly learned to check we were going in the right direction before swiping our metro card. The weather was cold and dark but not raining yet. As we headed in to FAO Schwarz we saw two guys not trying to hide they were dressed and acting like women. Only in New York. We enjoyed walking around looking at all the toys, giant candy, lego statues, and of course the big piano. We decided to get Hadley a souvenir from there and ended up buying her a sequin covered coin purse in the shape of an M&M (her favorite candy) and an FAO Schwarz shirt.
We headed from there down to Rockefeller Plaza, seeing all the famous 5th Ave shops on the way. Once in Rockefeller Plaza we visited the Lego Store and took a lot of pictures of the area. We then walked to our hotel to check in. On the way we saw a store strictly devoted to M&M's right down the street from our hotel. We stopped in but saw nothing of worth to buy.
We checked in to the Belvedere Hotel near Times Square and rested for about an hour before heading back out. On our way to dinner it started to rain so we had to stop for an umbrella. We had quite the ride and walk to dinner down in Brooklyn but the dinner at Grimaldi's Pizza was FANTASTIC! It was a small hole in the wall that didn't accept checks or credit cards and made their own mozzarella cheese. It rained the whole time we ate dinner and then stopped as we were about to walk to the Brooklyn Bridge.
The Brooklyn Bridge was a great place to be at night with all the lights of the city. Part of the bridge was under construction so it obscured our view somewhat but still nice. Jon took a lot of great pictures and got the chance to yell back at a cyclist who called him stupid. A great New York experience. We decided it was time to head to Times Square and on the way we stopped at Grand Central Station.
There wasn't anything exciting at Grand Central Station, it was just a big, beautiful building to look at.
We hit up Times Square with all it's flashing lights. Nothing real special. We bought a few souvenirs and headed back to our hotel. We were beat! Our feet hurt and our legs were tired.
Day 2 in another post.....
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| We made it on the right train! |
It was our first time on a commuter train and we had no idea what we were doing. They wait until 10 minutes before the train departs to announce which gate to go to. We were nervous we would miss it but we made it. The seats had so much space it made airplanes look like miniature toys. The train followed the Hudson river south to New York city and we got to see a lot of the country. We even saw a Bald Eagle with a fish in its talons about 20 yards from the train, it was pretty cool. Two and a half hours later we arrived in Penn Station.
From Penn Station we started our adventure. We stopped at Eataly for lunch because we were STARVING. We had no idea what the place was like so when we sat down at the first table we could find it happened to be a menu of only seafood and vegetarian plates. Ummm what? We then figured out this place was a farmer's market with several little restaurants in it. We got up from the table and headed over to the Pizza and Panini's restaurant which had a 30 minute wait. Go figure. We were going to walk around while we waited and discovered a fancy restaurant that had immediate seating so we just went with that. Probably not the best decision either as we couldn't really decipher the menu and I ended up ordering raw beef. It didn't taste bad, it was sliced thin like prosciutto, but not filling at all and not what I wanted. Jon traded with me and we ended up mostly sharing his dish which was some sort of Gnocchi. It was good but not great.
From Eataly we went to the Subway and purchased our Metro Card and headed over to 5th Ave to FAO Schwarz. The subway took some getting used to. We quickly learned to check we were going in the right direction before swiping our metro card. The weather was cold and dark but not raining yet. As we headed in to FAO Schwarz we saw two guys not trying to hide they were dressed and acting like women. Only in New York. We enjoyed walking around looking at all the toys, giant candy, lego statues, and of course the big piano. We decided to get Hadley a souvenir from there and ended up buying her a sequin covered coin purse in the shape of an M&M (her favorite candy) and an FAO Schwarz shirt.
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| Our first subway ride |
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| Playing on the big piano |
We headed from there down to Rockefeller Plaza, seeing all the famous 5th Ave shops on the way. Once in Rockefeller Plaza we visited the Lego Store and took a lot of pictures of the area. We then walked to our hotel to check in. On the way we saw a store strictly devoted to M&M's right down the street from our hotel. We stopped in but saw nothing of worth to buy.
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| Rockefeller Plaza |
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| Making my own mini-lego man |
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| Delicious Pizza |
The Brooklyn Bridge was a great place to be at night with all the lights of the city. Part of the bridge was under construction so it obscured our view somewhat but still nice. Jon took a lot of great pictures and got the chance to yell back at a cyclist who called him stupid. A great New York experience. We decided it was time to head to Times Square and on the way we stopped at Grand Central Station.
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| Brooklyn Bridge |
There wasn't anything exciting at Grand Central Station, it was just a big, beautiful building to look at.
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| Grand Central Station |
Thursday, October 6, 2011
New York Farm Country
My father-in-law bought a house in upstate New York this past year as a summer house since they are selling their house in Tucson. So we decided to go visit. It was mine and Hadley's first time to New York (I'm not sure if that's proper English) we were excited to see new country. We flew out of Tucson and stopped in Atlanta and then on to Albany. Hadley had her own seat and since we needed to bring her car seat anyway we used it on the plane. She's much more cooperative if she's in her car seat. Both flights went great!
We had an hour and fifteen minute drive after landing in Albany so we rented a car and drove out in the dark. We were bummed to not be able to see much on our drive but we saw it all later on the trip. When we arrived at the house we ate a quick dinner and went to bed. With the 3 hour difference we had a slight issue adjusting but Hadley was so worn out from traveling she fell right to sleep and slept fine the rest of the trip.
Thursday morning was cool and it had rained most of the night. We headed in to Cooperstown, about a 10 minute drive, and saw the town. The country-side was absolutely beautiful! I originally thought it would just be closed in with all trees, but because it is a farming area there were a lot of open pastures around. Of course it was all very green and the trees were starting to turn colors. Some were yellow and others were already red. After stopping at Ace Hardware to get Hadley some rain boots so her feet would stay dry we headed off to a small area called Fly Creek.
Here they had an Apple Cider Mill that was more of a gift shop and small amusement park. They had ducks, geese, and chickens you could feed. Hadley cared only about that. There was a country gift store with a lot of apple-based foods that were made at the mill or from surrounding areas. The best part was they had little sampler dishes out for you try stuff and it was all pretty good. Except we did see one guy double-dipping...tsk tsk.
From there we decided to go have lunch at a restaurant that sat right on the shore of a nearby lake. The service wasn't great but the food was good and the scenery even better.
Naps, rain, and walking around the property filled up the rest of the day.
Friday morning proved to be another, fall, cold rainy day but when it wasn't raining we tried to make the most of it. We headed to a nearby you-pick farm that had lots of apples, raspberries, and a "pumpkin patch." They actually called it a pumpkin hunt. Apparently they cut the pumpkins and then just randomly place them in an old wheat field. You trudge through the swampy mud and tall grass to find your pumpkin. Not as exciting as Apple Annies where you get to cut your own pumpkin but it was still neat. We drove around town again for a little bit, made a few quick necessity stops and then went a little further out to a family run restaurant for lunch and homemade ice cream. The lunch was average but the ice cream was delicious!
After our naps we walked out to a few apple trees on the in-laws property. Did I mention apple trees are everywhere out there? They also had some blueberry bushes, gooseberry, and a few other fruit bushes randomly around the property. We picked apples while Hadley ate the apples. We're not really sure what kind they are but a few trees may be Granny Smith.
Saturday morning Jon's sister and her boyfriend drove in from Pittsburgh for the weekend. We decided to head out for lunch at a nearby local brewery called Ommegang (Om-uh-gang). Of course it was cold and rainy so when we showed up we notice a lot of people heading to a white tent for some sort of special event. Come to find out it was the brewery's 14th birthday and they were having waffles, music, and a puppet show. We all headed out to the tent to participate but realized it was too cold for a toddler and her grandparents to hang out so the three of them left, leaving Jon, his sister, her boyfriend and I to fend for ourselves. We decided to hang out, they all had beers (I was the DD), and we listened to some live folk music. After we'd had enough of being out in the rain and cold we decided to take the brief brewery tour. Let me tell you it was brief. They only took us in two rooms, the rooms where they make the beer and the room where they bottle the beer. The brew room was very basic, nothing too fancy, just all huge pieces of equipment but the bottling room was very high tech. It ended with a chaotic tasting as our group was quite large. Needless to say we ended our tasting early, got some souvenirs and left. It rained most of the day but when it wasn't we tried to get outside for a few minutes. We ended the night at a local Italian restaurant with good food but the service, again, wasn't great. It took a long time for us to get our food and Hadley was about done waiting.
Sunday was a day at home. Jon's aunt lives about an hour away from where we were so she came over for a late afternoon lunch. It was kind of like a Thanksgiving dinner but with pulled pork! All the food was delicious and we all just wanted to sleep afterward.
I swear the moment the calendar struck October 1 all houses were beautifully decorated with fall decorations. Pumpkins, corn stalks, beatuiful dark red and gold mums. It was very different from what you see here in the desert.
Monday and Tuesday Jon and I went to New York City by ourselves. All that in another post.
We had an hour and fifteen minute drive after landing in Albany so we rented a car and drove out in the dark. We were bummed to not be able to see much on our drive but we saw it all later on the trip. When we arrived at the house we ate a quick dinner and went to bed. With the 3 hour difference we had a slight issue adjusting but Hadley was so worn out from traveling she fell right to sleep and slept fine the rest of the trip.
Thursday morning was cool and it had rained most of the night. We headed in to Cooperstown, about a 10 minute drive, and saw the town. The country-side was absolutely beautiful! I originally thought it would just be closed in with all trees, but because it is a farming area there were a lot of open pastures around. Of course it was all very green and the trees were starting to turn colors. Some were yellow and others were already red. After stopping at Ace Hardware to get Hadley some rain boots so her feet would stay dry we headed off to a small area called Fly Creek.
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| Our first morning on a walk |
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| Pretty fall colors |
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| Fall morning, countryside covered in fog |
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| Hadley sporting her new rain boots |
Here they had an Apple Cider Mill that was more of a gift shop and small amusement park. They had ducks, geese, and chickens you could feed. Hadley cared only about that. There was a country gift store with a lot of apple-based foods that were made at the mill or from surrounding areas. The best part was they had little sampler dishes out for you try stuff and it was all pretty good. Except we did see one guy double-dipping...tsk tsk.
From there we decided to go have lunch at a restaurant that sat right on the shore of a nearby lake. The service wasn't great but the food was good and the scenery even better.
Naps, rain, and walking around the property filled up the rest of the day.
Friday morning proved to be another, fall, cold rainy day but when it wasn't raining we tried to make the most of it. We headed to a nearby you-pick farm that had lots of apples, raspberries, and a "pumpkin patch." They actually called it a pumpkin hunt. Apparently they cut the pumpkins and then just randomly place them in an old wheat field. You trudge through the swampy mud and tall grass to find your pumpkin. Not as exciting as Apple Annies where you get to cut your own pumpkin but it was still neat. We drove around town again for a little bit, made a few quick necessity stops and then went a little further out to a family run restaurant for lunch and homemade ice cream. The lunch was average but the ice cream was delicious!
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| Hadley with the Hay Man at the you-pick farm |
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| Hadley found her pumpkin |
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| A view down the row of apple trees at the farm |
After our naps we walked out to a few apple trees on the in-laws property. Did I mention apple trees are everywhere out there? They also had some blueberry bushes, gooseberry, and a few other fruit bushes randomly around the property. We picked apples while Hadley ate the apples. We're not really sure what kind they are but a few trees may be Granny Smith.
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| Hadley enjoying her apple at Grammie and Grampy's apple orchard |
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| Jon showing our bounty. These went in to some fresh baked apple pies! Yum! |
Saturday morning Jon's sister and her boyfriend drove in from Pittsburgh for the weekend. We decided to head out for lunch at a nearby local brewery called Ommegang (Om-uh-gang). Of course it was cold and rainy so when we showed up we notice a lot of people heading to a white tent for some sort of special event. Come to find out it was the brewery's 14th birthday and they were having waffles, music, and a puppet show. We all headed out to the tent to participate but realized it was too cold for a toddler and her grandparents to hang out so the three of them left, leaving Jon, his sister, her boyfriend and I to fend for ourselves. We decided to hang out, they all had beers (I was the DD), and we listened to some live folk music. After we'd had enough of being out in the rain and cold we decided to take the brief brewery tour. Let me tell you it was brief. They only took us in two rooms, the rooms where they make the beer and the room where they bottle the beer. The brew room was very basic, nothing too fancy, just all huge pieces of equipment but the bottling room was very high tech. It ended with a chaotic tasting as our group was quite large. Needless to say we ended our tasting early, got some souvenirs and left. It rained most of the day but when it wasn't we tried to get outside for a few minutes. We ended the night at a local Italian restaurant with good food but the service, again, wasn't great. It took a long time for us to get our food and Hadley was about done waiting.
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| The entrance to the brewery |
Sunday was a day at home. Jon's aunt lives about an hour away from where we were so she came over for a late afternoon lunch. It was kind of like a Thanksgiving dinner but with pulled pork! All the food was delicious and we all just wanted to sleep afterward.
I swear the moment the calendar struck October 1 all houses were beautifully decorated with fall decorations. Pumpkins, corn stalks, beatuiful dark red and gold mums. It was very different from what you see here in the desert.
Monday and Tuesday Jon and I went to New York City by ourselves. All that in another post.
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Pick your Poison
I was asked the other night what my favorite book is. I knew it was coming because others around me had been asked just moments before but I was rushing to pull out a good title. I've been asked that before and have yet to come up with a satisfying answer to it. In a stupid way this bothers me.
Most who know me know I love to read. I have loved it for as long as I can remember, despite my brief hiatus in college. I'd lay for hours in my room as a child, lost in the details and descriptions of a fictitious story. Although, I think I have only re-read about 2 books in my whole life. I don't like to re-read, perhaps because to read over the same story I might find different details or might be caught in a different time of life that will negatively affect my opinion of the story. It's better to not disturb those positive thoughts.
What bothers me most about this question as of late is my journey in writing. I decided I would just take a step of faith and enroll in the Christian Writer's Guild program and work to become a published author of some sort. Why? Because I like to read stories and enjoy the thought of telling a story for someone else to enjoy. I'm not great at verbal communication so writing works out well for me, it's slow and I have time to think through my thoughts and find the right words.
As a novice author I feel the need to nail down my favorite book. I can't bring myself to commit though. The truth is I like A LOT of books. All for different reasons. To compare one book to another is definitely comparing apples to orangutans. It'd be easier for me to narrow it down to specific genres and I can pick specific books within genres but to say one title holds my vote over all others is impossible for me.
Historical fiction is definitely my favorite genre of writing. I will read many other types of books but I always find myself subconsciously drawn to historical fiction stories.
So back to the question, "What is my favorite book?" because I couldn't come up with an answer I was then asked to narrow it down to 3, this I could do. So in no particular order I said, The Help, Where the Red Fern Grows, and........I couldn't do it. I just couldn't choose. There are way too many books I like.
What is your favorite book? Can you choose or do you have anxiety about committing to just one like me?
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Trusting in Mere Humans
I read though Isaiah 2 this morning and at the end of the chapter I read this:
"Stop trusting in mere humans,
who have but a breath in their nostrils.
Why hold them in esteem?"
"Stop trusting in mere humans,
who have but a breath in their nostrils.
Why hold them in esteem?"
It's harsh but I like it. It's a good reminder we need to stop looking to humans to fulfill ALL of our needs. Please take note of the word 'all' because certainly there are times when humans can and do fulfill some of our needs.
I am constantly reminded humans will disappoint, I will disappoint. I know I have and will continue to disappoint those close to me, those I come in contact with, I will disappoint myself, and dare I say, God. Sure, God already knows everything I'm about to do and knows who I am...blah blah blah. This doesn't mean He's not disappointed in my choices. This seems to be the very reason He asked Jesus to be the sacrifice.
I see people church hopping because they put too much stock in sinful leaders to change their own walk with God. Men and women of all ages jump from one relationship to the other because they thought another human could perfectly fill each and every void in their life. Others use all their time and resources to promote a presidential candidate only to be severely disappointed the elected did not fulfill their promises.
Idolizing people is dangerous, although easy. While God speaks through broken humans, He comforts others through selfish men and women, God challenges us to be better people by using those who aren't really better themselves we cannot forget everyone will let us down eventually and God will not.
Only God can fulfill EACH AND EVERY ONE of His promises. Only God can speak a message so earth-shattering your life can change forever. Only God can be perfectly faithful in every way to the ones He loves.
Psalm 36:5
Your love, O LORD, reaches to the heavens, your faithfulness to the skies.
Your love, O LORD, reaches to the heavens, your faithfulness to the skies.
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Global Leadership Summit Day 2 part 2
During the first part of the morning (on the first day actually) Hybels shared a change in schedule. CEO of Starbucks, Howard Schultz, was supposed to speak on the second day. I think he was supposed to speak about Vision and how Starbucks has done well to stick to their vision. Well apparently a group of homosexuals found out Schultz was going to be speaking at a church (they thought Willow Creek Church was anti-gay, my, how they are misinformed) and so they started a protest on Facebook asking people to boycott Starbucks. After meeting with the Summit leadership, including Bill Hybels, Schultz was released of his contract to speak and didn't show. Hybels and his team immediately pursued those who started to the boycott so they could sit down and discuss Willow Creek's ACTUAL view on homosexuality. I'll let the reader make their own opinion about Schultz but having watched how Bill Hybels handled the situation was encouraging. Here is a video clip of the situation.
After Rhee shared we went to lunch and came back to Dr. Henry Cloud, a clinical psychologist, speaking on The Evil, The Foolish, The Wise. Essentially saying, "you cannot deal with every person the same." Seems easy right?
*The wise person is someone who changes when faced with changed. They make sure they are the match for the situation, are good with feedback, stay challenged.
*The fools try to change the truth, instead of changing themselves to go along with it. They will generally shoot the messenger, minimize and externalize the situation. They are usually angry people who take no ownership.
*The evil person is bent on destruction. They want to inflict pain and will usually involve lawyers, guns, and money in trying to "solve" any situation. These people, Cloud said, need to be removed because they will attempt to destroy any vision or step of progress that is trying to be made and they WILL bring others down with them.
*I liked one of his opening statements: "God has called you to be a steward over a vision. To change something. Are you going to allow difficult people to prevent you from carrying it out?"
*When looking for people to be your support in your vision you should ask yourself, "What does a person do when the truth or reality comes to them?" Are they wise, foolish, or evil?
Again, "Don't let someone's character problem stop you from carrying out the mission God has called you to. Which reminds me of Paul and Barnabas splitting up. Not that they weren't both effective, but they knew their visions were different at a certain point of what God wanted them to do and they had the maturity to split. Unfortunately, I know not all people will handle things as maturely.
John Dickson, senior minister at St. Andrews Anglican Church in Sydney spoke on Humility. It was an interesting topic with a different twist. Dickson is a senior research fellow in the Department of Ancient History at a local university so his study on humility went far back into the ancient civilizations. One cool note and story he shared was of being in a band in his early years and getting to meet Bono. Him and a friend snuck in to the hotel where U2 was staying and were able to meet the band. It was a great story. Here are a few points on his talk of Humility.
*Humility does NOT mean Humiliation or Low Self-esteem.
*It IS to hold power in the service of others.
1. Humility is common sense. None of us is an expert at everything (although we try to be...or I try to be sometimes). Expertise in one area counts for very little in another.
2. Humility is beautiful. We are more attracted tot hose are who humble. Mark 10:43, Philippians 2:3-8
3. Humility is generative. it's a place of learning and growth.
4. Humility is persuasive. Ethos - Character, is central to persuasion
5. Humility is inspiring. It makes people think they can be just like the "great" (This is where his story of meeting Bono came. Bono had enough humility to meet with Dickson and his friend when he didn't have to, so Dickson had a sense like he could become great like Bono)
Since Schultz couldn't make it, his stand-in was Patrick Lencioni. President and found of The Table Group, which does consulting for businesses. He spoke on vulnerability which I felt tied in nicely with Humility. He had a lot of great stories about meeting with CEO's and other leaders of companies who were unwilling to be vulnerable and the impact it had on their employees.
*Vulnerability means you're open to attack.
*There are usually 3 fears of being vulnerable:
1. Fear of losing the business or fear of rejection -- Enter the danger, speak the kind truth (we won't always be successful)
2. Fear of being embarrassed -- Ask questions, are you looking out for their (employees) best interest? Celebrate our mistakes. He shared a short story about a woman farting in a large group meeting and trying to ignore it. If she would have acknowledged it everyone would have had a good laugh and moved on, but as she ignored it, it grew more awkward. It was a funny story.
3. Fear of feeling inferior -- Show people you are willing to do what you ask them to do. You won't always be rewarded. Honor your clients work.
*Being vulnerable breeds trust, loyalty, and commitment.
Last, but certainly not least, Erwin McManus. Erwin has written many books and is the pastor of Mosaic church in California, among other things. A lot of his books could be considered "post-modern," if you believe that term to exist. He has a new way of thinking about things that is often right along with the newer generations. His topic was "Chasing Daylight" or seize the day!
*One of the greatest challenges as a Christian is to change how we do relationships.
*Looking at Ecclesiastes 1, "There is nothing new under the sun..." this phrase is killing the church. People are not looking for things to do better.
*Why do we wait for someone else to create the future? (sound similar to another speaker's topics?) Become cultivators of human talent (Acts 7)
*There is no ordinary person born but most of us all painfully, tragically die ordinary.
*What is spiritual leadership if we do not set the human spirit free?
*The church needs to reclaim it's place as the epicenter of creativity
*It's not that hard to bring people to Jesus by telling stories.
And there it is. My final summary of the leadership speakers. While I know this is dragged out for those reading, it's been nice to go through my notes a few weeks afterward and review some golden nuggets I took away. Each person, though not all Christian, seemed to have a pretty God-centered message. Yes, there were times where the content was more business related but still those principles can be implemented in other areas.
If you've never gone to a Leadership Summit before, you NEED to go next year. Yes, I said NEED TO.
It's already scheduled, August 9 & 10 2012.
After Rhee shared we went to lunch and came back to Dr. Henry Cloud, a clinical psychologist, speaking on The Evil, The Foolish, The Wise. Essentially saying, "you cannot deal with every person the same." Seems easy right?
*The wise person is someone who changes when faced with changed. They make sure they are the match for the situation, are good with feedback, stay challenged.
*The fools try to change the truth, instead of changing themselves to go along with it. They will generally shoot the messenger, minimize and externalize the situation. They are usually angry people who take no ownership.
*The evil person is bent on destruction. They want to inflict pain and will usually involve lawyers, guns, and money in trying to "solve" any situation. These people, Cloud said, need to be removed because they will attempt to destroy any vision or step of progress that is trying to be made and they WILL bring others down with them.
*I liked one of his opening statements: "God has called you to be a steward over a vision. To change something. Are you going to allow difficult people to prevent you from carrying it out?"
*When looking for people to be your support in your vision you should ask yourself, "What does a person do when the truth or reality comes to them?" Are they wise, foolish, or evil?
Again, "Don't let someone's character problem stop you from carrying out the mission God has called you to. Which reminds me of Paul and Barnabas splitting up. Not that they weren't both effective, but they knew their visions were different at a certain point of what God wanted them to do and they had the maturity to split. Unfortunately, I know not all people will handle things as maturely.
John Dickson, senior minister at St. Andrews Anglican Church in Sydney spoke on Humility. It was an interesting topic with a different twist. Dickson is a senior research fellow in the Department of Ancient History at a local university so his study on humility went far back into the ancient civilizations. One cool note and story he shared was of being in a band in his early years and getting to meet Bono. Him and a friend snuck in to the hotel where U2 was staying and were able to meet the band. It was a great story. Here are a few points on his talk of Humility.
*Humility does NOT mean Humiliation or Low Self-esteem.
*It IS to hold power in the service of others.
1. Humility is common sense. None of us is an expert at everything (although we try to be...or I try to be sometimes). Expertise in one area counts for very little in another.
2. Humility is beautiful. We are more attracted tot hose are who humble. Mark 10:43, Philippians 2:3-8
3. Humility is generative. it's a place of learning and growth.
4. Humility is persuasive. Ethos - Character, is central to persuasion
5. Humility is inspiring. It makes people think they can be just like the "great" (This is where his story of meeting Bono came. Bono had enough humility to meet with Dickson and his friend when he didn't have to, so Dickson had a sense like he could become great like Bono)
Since Schultz couldn't make it, his stand-in was Patrick Lencioni. President and found of The Table Group, which does consulting for businesses. He spoke on vulnerability which I felt tied in nicely with Humility. He had a lot of great stories about meeting with CEO's and other leaders of companies who were unwilling to be vulnerable and the impact it had on their employees.
*Vulnerability means you're open to attack.
*There are usually 3 fears of being vulnerable:
1. Fear of losing the business or fear of rejection -- Enter the danger, speak the kind truth (we won't always be successful)
2. Fear of being embarrassed -- Ask questions, are you looking out for their (employees) best interest? Celebrate our mistakes. He shared a short story about a woman farting in a large group meeting and trying to ignore it. If she would have acknowledged it everyone would have had a good laugh and moved on, but as she ignored it, it grew more awkward. It was a funny story.
3. Fear of feeling inferior -- Show people you are willing to do what you ask them to do. You won't always be rewarded. Honor your clients work.
*Being vulnerable breeds trust, loyalty, and commitment.
Last, but certainly not least, Erwin McManus. Erwin has written many books and is the pastor of Mosaic church in California, among other things. A lot of his books could be considered "post-modern," if you believe that term to exist. He has a new way of thinking about things that is often right along with the newer generations. His topic was "Chasing Daylight" or seize the day!
*One of the greatest challenges as a Christian is to change how we do relationships.
*Looking at Ecclesiastes 1, "There is nothing new under the sun..." this phrase is killing the church. People are not looking for things to do better.
*Why do we wait for someone else to create the future? (sound similar to another speaker's topics?) Become cultivators of human talent (Acts 7)
*There is no ordinary person born but most of us all painfully, tragically die ordinary.
*What is spiritual leadership if we do not set the human spirit free?
*The church needs to reclaim it's place as the epicenter of creativity
*It's not that hard to bring people to Jesus by telling stories.
And there it is. My final summary of the leadership speakers. While I know this is dragged out for those reading, it's been nice to go through my notes a few weeks afterward and review some golden nuggets I took away. Each person, though not all Christian, seemed to have a pretty God-centered message. Yes, there were times where the content was more business related but still those principles can be implemented in other areas.
If you've never gone to a Leadership Summit before, you NEED to go next year. Yes, I said NEED TO.
It's already scheduled, August 9 & 10 2012.
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